To unlock your leadership greatness, you must start from the premise that greatness exists within you. Greatness is an infinite potential to reflect a significant purpose. It is not arrogance of superiority, but rather a hunger to live a life of meaning. As humans, we are intrinsically drawn to excellence and, when we are separated from it, we crave to re-establish contact. Access and exposure to this reservoir of experiences and expertise will enable you to lead yourself and others to a better future.

Leadership is an integral part of our lives and is instrumental in achieving results that represent success. Experts discuss the need to include diversity and inclusion as a part of training, rather than as a standalone program. Effective leadership, incorporating individual distinctions, will enable you to instinctively make decisions that include everyone. You will capitalize on the talents, ideas, and contributions of the team as well as every individual to improve innovation and decision-making.

The climate you have has a profound effect on your results. Some experts believe 30% of your financial results (profits and revenue) can be directly related to organizational climate. Climate can impact employee engagement levels, which also influence results.

The climate/culture you create can be seen through the acronym OASIS. OASIS = Open and Share Ideas Safely. The climate must be a place where people are in a safe place to state how they feel and how they can help you and the company excel and meet personal objectives and the needs of clients.

It was Friday of my first week as the Senior Director of Diversity and Work/Life Effectiveness, after nearly thirty years of sales, marketing, and training experience. I was called to a meeting of our Research & Development Department. It was an actual meeting with people participating across the world as a video conference and a teleconference. At one point in their discussion of the eight questions from the Employee Survey related to diversity, one of the directors turned to me. “Orlando, since you are the worldwide expert of diversity, what do you think we should do?”

“Thank you very much,” I responded. “Since I am the worldwide expert as of Monday, let me speak to you from my depth of experience. One of the questions asks, ‘Are you afraid to state what’s on your mind without fear of reprisal?’ The last survey result gave an average response of 64%, this year’s survey came in at 66%. I will not talk to you about the statistical significance of going from 64% to 66%, but what I will tell you is that one-third of your people are afraid to state what is on their minds. We recently lost four drugs in late-stage development, after a tremendous financial investment. Somebody knew they had problems. Either they were too afraid to state what was on their minds, or they spoke their minds and they were ignored. We will need the next great drug to be successful. Who’s to say that the success of that next great drug does not reside in the minds of the one-third who are too afraid to speak?” As a leader, you must get the best out of your people, and one way is to encourage candid discussions and establish an environment that rewards and encourages this philosophy. Remember you are all on the same team and want the same level of success.

There is a leadership continuum showing the correlation between values, beliefs, and results. Values influence personal expectations and the expectations you and the organization have for your direct reports. There is a certain behavior we infuse within our culture. Those who comply are seen as successful, and the outliers are reformed or replaced. Fifty to seventy percent of the variance in organizational climate can be attributed to differences in leadership style.

There is a burning desire, a hunger that exists within you; a turbulence stirring inside indicative of a need to be satisfied. This yearning to live a life of purpose asks you to find and fulfill your reason to achieve a goal. So, you are programmed to make an impact, not merely a faint impression, but a bold imprint. To be successful, there are keys or success factors at your disposal.

There is an open debate on which keys are the most beneficial to unlock the vault. However, this vault of potential energy will transform your life. It will not require voice recognition software, retinal scans, reading a thumbprint, or facial analysis to get inside and use its contents. In one of my favorite childhood stories, the hero would always say, “Open Sesame” to open the side of the mountain that was filled with unlimited treasure. In this book, you will review ten keys to unlock your leadership greatness. These practical strategies and their tactics are designed to give you Action-Oriented Knowledge (AOK).

The ten keys evolved from over three decades of experience in observing and developing Impact Players. The term Impact Players is common in professional sports and is applicable to academic, business, and community performance. Impact Players are the game changers, the difference makers, the catalysts who change the direction of the game and the performance of their peers and the competition. By their very presence, they accelerate and elevate performance to a higher level. People are wired to become Impact Players. The traits of these high achievers are similar to the traits we wish to unlock in each of us to reach our maximum effectiveness. Tapping into this power will enable you to unlock your leadership greatness.

To unlock leadership greatness, discard and disregard the debate of whether great leaders are born or made. Walk away from conversations that argue whether nature or nurture shapes the greatness of a leader. William Shakespeare said, “Be not afraid of greatness; some are born great, some achieve greatness, and others have greatness thrust upon them.” Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “Everyone can be great, because everyone can serve.” The ten keys to unlock your leadership greatness embody these quotations.

We define our infinite potential as our inherent leadership greatness. You will utilize your skills to focus on the benefits, remove the barriers, and experience the breakthroughs or “Aha’s,” as you discover the treasury of enriched potential within you. Jules Verne, in his book Journey to the Center of the Earth,” imagined wonders and adventures” on an expedition going beneath the Earth’s surface. You will encounter such a stimulating journey as you delve into unlocking your leadership greatness.

DEI Essentials

May 2, 2025 ~ Orlando Ceaser

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DEI Essentials

DEI stands for Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion, but there are many positive variations on these words that express the intent of the strategy and tactics for everyone.

DEI is the code of discovery that can unlock new paradigms of potential, imagination, and innovation. People think of DEI as separate from meritocracy, however, fairness would suggest that equity is essential when measuring and rewarding performance. DEI Essentials is a phrase to describe the necessary and seldom considered attributes associated with diversity, equity, and inclusion. These positive expectations and ancillary benefits are constructive. When DEI Essentials are present, there is synergy formed with the interaction of diverse and creative exchanges. They affect us on a personal and business level, enhancing decision-making, problem-solving solving and innovation. It is imperative to isolate and identify these assets to engage minds and develop better solutions.

DEI Essentials extract the best from everyone, creating a climate where dignity, respect, empathy, cooperation, and compassion are natural values. The results are a coordination of resources and ideas that lead to innovation and successful interactions. As we encourage fairness, involvement, and ingenuity, we set up an inclusive environment where people care and share, and dare to declare their greatness through strengthening relationships. We must maintain the desire to build relationships and cooperation, for they are critical to success.

“Diversity, equity, and inclusion

Must endure the chaos and confusion;

And emphasize positive potential,

And focus on DEI Essentials.”

Orlando Ceaser

DEI Essentials are necessary components if we want to achieve the ultimate state of effectiveness. They contain bedrock values and are the cornerstone of a thriving enterprise. They allow us to continuously push the envelope to greater frontiers. It is built on open representation, equal access to opportunity, and stimulating contributions to ensure people bring their best talent and ideas to the table. We are tapping into reservoirs of potential and possibilities.

Diversity Essentials

Diversity Essentials are characteristics that manifest our uniqueness, variety, distinctiveness, and perspectives. We developed our character through education, culture, exposure, experiences, and expertise. Diversity Essentials comprises the ways we are different, including the visible and invisible, seen and unseen. It captures the different generations and their interests. Baby Boomers are eliciting the talent and genius of Generation X, Millennials, and Gen-Z. It is an invitation to all people and ideas.

When we look at a definition of diversity, everyone should see themselves in it. We may be altruistic to a certain extent, but we need to see ourselves featured to feel as if we belong; for inclusion is a natural desire.

More of the distinctions and descriptions that describe how we are or how we feel are as follows.

Ability status, age, background, citizenship status, class, culture, development stage, educational level, ethnicity, extroversion, family status, function, gender, generation, immigration status, introversion, language, leadership styles, learning styles, life experiences, life styles, love languages, mindsets, national origin, organizational levels, other, outsider, personality types, physical attributes, political affiliation, race, regional origin, religious beliefs, sexual orientation, socio-economic status, spirituality, thinking and working styles.

Diversity Essentials are strategic business decisions that ensure that company personnel and representation reflect the customer base, community, and availability of talent. They are spontaneous revelations that believe in Win/Win situations. Diversity is more than race and gender. It is not a monster or the boogeyman to cause fear and loathing. It wants us to cultivate our abilities for the widespread improvement of projects, people, teams, countries, and the planet. Where it is practiced, organizations thrive financially in a robust culture of cooperation and innovation. Joel Barker, a Futurist who popularized paradigms and paradigm shifts, said, “Societies and organizations that most creatively incorporate diversity will reap the rewards of innovation, growth, wealth, and progress.” He also said many innovations are attributed to the outsider because they bring diverse perspectives to an opportunity.

Diversity Essentials recognizes our special nature and characteristics. We benefit extensively from the fortuitous value of working together and learning from each other.

Diversity Essentials harmonize these traits in an environment of acceptance and belonging, which allows each individual to be free, fulfilled, and fruitful.

Equity Essentials

Equity Essentials cultivates respect for fairness and the potential to be treated fairly to reach our potential to express our greatness with unfettered access to opportunity. There is an expectation of excellence. Meritocracy is a key component because the organization cannot function successfully unless it is staffed appropriately with hard-working, highly skilled employees.

Equity Essentials must be established and verifiable to potential and current employees, as well as investors. Equity Essentials assures us that we are attractive to top talent. People are attracted to places where sound, enforceable policies are in place. They wanted to be treated fairly in a setting of equal opportunity. Employee reaction should be validated in company surveys and individual conversations. People do not feel they have an equal opportunity where favoritism and nepotism run rampant without leadership emphasizing fairness. It is one thing to have written policies against favoritism and nepotism, but if they are not enforced, they are meaningless.

Equity Essentials provides feedback on micro-inequities, bias, acceptance of generations, and increasing engagement levels. They educate us and improve our awareness of anomalies that are barriers to high performance. Integrity is an integral part of our operations, and we must elevate and celebrate core values that reflect who we are and want to become.

Inclusion Essentials

Inclusion Essentials are premeditated acts to involve others. We are pieces to puzzles and may contain missing perspectives and ideas for concepts, programs, and problems. We may have what is needed for the evolution, development, and growth of our peers or mankind in general. We cannot afford to isolate individuals who may hold the keys to our success.

Inclusion Essentials may manifest as practices, rules, and regulations that establish a climate of access and full participation. People want to be accepted in an environment of authenticity where they genuinely belong. When people know that they are valued and aligned with high expectations, in a caring group, they will not want to disappoint us. When we hold them accountable and solicit their contributions, they will stand up and stand out. There is joy in being part of something larger than each individual. They will bask in the association of being connected to fulfilling and worthwhile work.

DEI Essentials flourish, as it nourishes inquiry, constructive relationships that lead to better coordination, problem solving, and reduced conflict.

DEI Essentials promote a level playing field where individual talent and effort are encouraged and rewarded. People willingly release energy and discretionary effort as they engage in excellence and are committed to a cause greater than themselves.

DEI vs VEI – “Variety is the Spice of Life, Imagination, and Innovation”

November 15, 2024 ~ Orlando Ceaser

DEI is a strategy to alter the climate in the workplace, build company culture, and capitalize on different talents and perspectives. It reflects customers’ makeup and ensures that many groups are represented. DEI is also necessary to ensure that organizations have a workforce that meets their staffing needs. However, despite its intent and documented positive results, DEI is controversial. Many believe that when DEI is implemented correctly, it is effective and has company and employee benefits.

The word diversity is primarily linked to affirmative action and reverse discrimination. Diversity is more than race and gender, but some people fail to see this. DEI applies to many valuable attributes and creates an environment where innovation can enhance teamwork and improve company culture. Equity and inclusion should be human rights. A successfully implemented DEI strategy in your culture is a win-win proposition. Additionally, it helps employers staff organizations today and in the future.

The variety among members of our species is visible and invisible. We have idiosyncrasies, peculiarities, and eccentricities that make us stand out from our peers. People should realize that their uniqueness is not a weakness, but a viable asset. DEI allows this to happen.

Consider the following kaleidoscope of values that highlights our differences. Everyone should see themselves in multiple words in the definition. When this is observed, it is not seen as a special program only for particular groups of individuals. Additionally, one does not feel left out and excluded.

Despite challenges to DEI, many organizations have remained steadfast in their commitment because they have seen the business transforming power of DEI. However, others have removed their support, due to pressure and negative impact on business. For example, consider the situation with Bud Light sales when a boycott was engineered after a social media post featuring a transgender actor. Bud Light went from number two to number three in sales and they had to shuffle company executives to distance themselves from the controversy.

Eliminating DEI programs prevents people from experiencing and benefitting from the fullness of DEI. Resistance to history, unconscious bias, micro-aggression, micro-inequities, and other diversity training are lost opportunities to better understand each other.

I propose the ‘V’ word, as a replacement for individuals confounded by the ‘D’ word. The principles present in DEI are valuable to all employees. We want to create an accepting, fair, inclusive, and belonging climate. Ultimately DEI can influence imagination and innovation. Variety should be used to accentuate our similarities and differences for growth and development.

Variety in the acronym may minimize controversy. I reworked the chart using variety as a neutral word for diversity while maintaining the highlights.

VEI addresses the advantages of our distinctiveness. We can enhance value by creating a positive company culture, where individuals and teams perform at a higher level.

Everyone has distinct qualities that make us unique. Variety as a replacement word may allow people to come to the table and use their various and sundry skills to bring out the best in everyone for the good of everyone in the enterprise. My premise is that substituting ‘Variety” for “Diversity” will help us achieve benefits for all employees.

What is your From – To Story (FTS)?

September 16, 2019 ~ Orlando Ceaser

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Constantly, we are exposed to stories that grab our attention. They are tales of unbelievable struggle, growth and accomplishment. People have overcome tremendous odds the and circumstances to arrive at an unforeseen destination. They may be classified as from rags to riches, from poverty to higher education, from homelessness to home ownership or from working as a janitor to becoming the principal of a school. These stories show the power of the human spirit; the magnificence of vision, goal setting, perseverance, generosity, luck and encouragement.

Our hearts were warmed a few years ago by the story of a Ted Williams, a homeless man who was called the Man With The Golden Voice. He was given a job making commercials and later returned to radio. When you think about your life, you can also create your own personal From – To Story. Look at a point in your life, a different job or think of your current position or objective in life. Where were you? Where are you? Where do you want to go? What do you want to become? What is your purpose, your destiny or your goal?

When I was younger, I would read about individuals who stated that they were the son or daughter of a sharecropper. Their bio would state, from a sharecropper’s son they rose to the position of president of their own company; from a single parent to the position of a medical doctor; from the inner city to a position in higher education. I have known individuals who have gone from an administrative assistant position to a position in sales management. These examples are all around us.

You know who you are and where you’re From, now it’s up to you to establish, what is your destination, or more specifically, what is your To? What is the right To for you? Before you arrive at your ultimate destination, there may be a series of stops along the way, therefore, there may be multiple To’s in your forecast, in your future.

What does your dream scenario look like? What is the tagline that you would want attached to the beginning of any description of your life and accomplishments? Fill in the blanks below to give yourself some practice. Thinking about your responses may fill you with a sense of accomplishment, on how well you’ve done and how far you’ve traveled. It may also show you, how far you must go and serve as a reminder of your purpose, destination and destiny.

From ________ To ___________.

I wish you success on your journey. I look forward to the day when we can discuss where you are From and your arrival to the To that is right for you. Your, From – To Story (FTS) will be a benefit to you and enrich the lives of others.

The 4th Monkey Matters

May 14, 2019 ~ Orlando Ceaser

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Leadership is consistently emphasized as a valuable set of skills for individuals charged with managing a business, performing in athletics and other interactions and endeavors involving people. There are numerous theories, books and training programs about leadership and the necessary characteristics and attributes of a strong leader. Integrity in business is one of the key leadership traits, often cited as critical when dealings and interacting with others.

Leadership is a discipline that is highly regarded in the annals of personal and organizational development. Effective use of this skill contributes to the successful implementation and execution of strategies that enable people to achieve expectations. Studies have indicated that diverse teams with strong leadership perform better. Strong leadership allows individuals to handle the disruption and challenges they may encounter while managing and working in a diverse environment, where differences of opinions, styles and approaches, among team members is prevalent.

The 4th Monkey is known as Shizaru in Japan. He receives very little attention, since most are familiar with his counterparts; see no evil (Mizaru), hear no evil (Kikazura), and speak no evil (Iwazura). His function is to do no evil, which you could argue is the most important monkey. The 4th Monkey’s emphasis is on right practices and behaviors. The proper way to meet people and treat people are just a few of the important actions. Being trustworthy and ethical are also essential elements.

The age-old saga of the monkeys places the emphasis on lack of involvement. If you do not see, hear or speak evil, you will minimize conflict. However, the 4th Monkey matters and transcends complacency and instructs the leader to exert their character and insert their presence into situations, to lead people to a mutually beneficial decisions and destinations.

The 4th Monkey matters. Do no evil is critical in leadership, as we lead in all areas of our lives. The 4th Monkey should be a mascot for a leadership team to validate the importance of ethics and right behavior. Let us focus on the workplace. In the business setting what are some of the wrong (evil) characteristics we can highlight?

Here is a top 10 list of principles that illustrate some examples of do no evil. This is by no means, a comprehensive or exhaustive list. Also, the list may be challenged and amended, for you may have other principles which are equally or more appropriate to your business and experience. Nevertheless we are in agreement that the 4th Monkey matters in the workplace.

Please review this list for it shows the interaction and compatibility between the 4th Monkey and your ability to lead. These principles will illustrate the importance of integrity by internalizing these 10 proposed principles from the 4th Monkey. Implementing these practices can highlight and contribute significantly to your results.

Notice below and, in your discussions, that there are evils / crimes of commission and omission. Failure to do the right thing, in the right situation, can be construed as a malicious act of omission.

1. Do not demonstrate poor character and lack of integrity
2. Do not lie (knowingly give false or misleading information)
3. Do not bully or intimidate others
4. Do not harm people’s dignity and self-respect
5. Do not misrepresent data (to deceive or protect)
6. Do not violate people’s rights or property
7. Do not discriminate (no favoritism and nepotism)
8. Do not steal (ideas or intellectual property)
9. Do not gossip, demean and discredit a reputation
10. Do not fail to give direction and authentic feedback

During my anthropology class in the first year of college, I was introduced to two attributes particular to certain monkeys. The first concept was brachiating, which meant the hand over hand movement of monkeys, as they travel from branch to branch (children perform this activity on the monkey bar). This reminds me of a leader who not only takes the high road, but is performing at a high level, to very high standards. This visible performance is noticed by others, especially those who are on the ground, and those traveling with them.

The second attribute was that many monkeys had a prehensile tail. This tail enabled the monkey to achieve additional agility and movement because of its ability to grab on to objects, which gave them greater flexibility and agility. Effective leaders must grab onto knowledge, information and concepts better than their peers. I propose that the 4th Monkey provides a metaphor of leadership dexterity to those individuals who are truly practitioners of effective leadership.

The 4th Monkey matters and enables us to lead and form natural alliances with our constituents, followers and others as we demonstrate and develop leaders, in order to transform their operations into successful, individual honoring enterprises.

4 Ways to Avoid Comfort in the Danger Zone

February 8, 2019 ~ Orlando Ceaser

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We often speak of the need for someone to get out of their comfort zone. We want them to try something different and more challenging in order to build their skills. Judith Bardwick wrote a book Danger in the Comfort Zone which expands upon this concept. One day, my wife trying to recall the title of the book, referred to it as Comfort in the Danger Zone, which may be the way we need to think of it to guard against complacency.

The Danger Zone is not an area with signs that say; Keep Out, No Trespassing, Caution, Warning or Danger Zone Ahead. On the contrary, there may not be any indicators that the area in which you reside has any potential hazards labeled. There may be an assumption that you are self-aware and old enough to know better. The Danger Zone could be situations or relationships at work or in your personal time. It is a place where your behavior could compromise your life and your livelihood in a negative manner. The Danger Zone can be a moving target, or it may involve shifting circumstances.

In a Danger Zone, you may not recognize the hidden pitfalls that may exist. However, here are at least 4 behaviors that put us at risk.

Lack of continuous improvement

If we are negligent and refuse to continuously improve our skills, we may wake up one day to discover that we are not compatible with our customers. We lagged behind the times and the mandatory evolution in skills that keep us competitive and relevant. We discover the bar is raised and others, around us have emerged with greater skills and more up-to-date knowledge and technology. They are formidable competitors, who have forged ahead of us on the career ladder for promotions and job retention.

Inappropriate conversations in the workplace

There are certain conversations, language and behavior that is not acceptable at work. We have become relaxed and too casual in our conversations in the workplace. With the emphasis on diversity and inclusion, organizations are hiring people with a variety of differences, similarities and sensitivities. In the era of a more respectful workplace, we must be respectful of everyone. We must adjust conversations and interactions which are out of line with current morays and expectations. It is now apparent through high profile lawsuits, that inappropriate conduct will not be tolerated, and the consequences will be severe.

Let down your guard

There is a lot written about self-awareness in the workplace and in our relationships. One day I was joking with an employee and I watched, as he became very comfortable and casual in his speech toward. At one point he offered a swearword, as he would with his friends at the bar. I watched him as he left the room, happy about his conversation with the boss, not realizing what he done.

Later, he walked by my office and I called him in for a brief discussion. I began by apologizing to him for my role in setting up an environment where he felt too comfortable. “You said something,” and I looked him in the eyes, “that could get you destroyed.” You don’t ever tell me what I am full of in the course of a conversation. However, I’m sorry, I apologize for my role. But the lesson for you is to never put yourself in a position where you become so comfortable that you are not aware of words that are coming from you. I said no harm no foul. It was my fault.” There was no harm, but there was a foul, but I promised him that I would not use that against him, and I did not. Subsequently he was promoted to a District Sales Manager position and is still with the organization performing at a high level. You must always increase your awareness and be on guard.

Lose sight of the value of people at every level

When we are in the Danger Zone, we may tend to devalue some of the people around us. If we decide that some individuals or some group does not have an impact on our career, we may shun them and not go deeper in building a connection or relationship. We may develop a reputation of only socializing with certain people, who we think can help us. This shortsightedness can work against us, especially, if those individuals get promoted ahead of us and they remember how we treated them.

I recall a situation where one of my peers made disparaging comments about me behind my back. Ultimately, I returned as his manager and I received a curious phone call from him. He apologized for comments he had made, 10 years earlier. Whereas his confession was noble, I asked him a question that he tried awkwardly to answer. My question was,” If I was not coming back as your manager, would we be having this conversation?” Spare yourself these uncomfortable moments and negative career impact by treating everyone with value at every level.

We must not get too comfortable in the Danger Zone. Our continuous focus on improving our skills, shying away from inappropriate conversations, not letting down our guard and losing sight of the value of people at every level will be richly rewarded. These four points will assist us in growing our careers and strengthening our relationships.

The 4th Monkey – “Do No Evil”

June 29, 2018 ~ Orlando Ceaser

I am reissuing, with a few modifications, my most popular blog post, for your consideration. The universal application of these age-old concepts is a tremendous value that should guide our behavior and interactions with each other.

We grew up with the story of the three monkeys. I imagine that many of us have the same interpretation of what they represent. We were exposed to pictures or statues. One monkey had his hands over his eyes, the second monkey with hands over his ears and the third monkey’s hands were over his mouth. They were see no evil (Mizaru), hear no evil (Kikazura) and speak no evil (Iwazura). There were actions and behaviors demanded of us based on the three monkeys, but nothing was said about the fourth monkey. The fourth monkey was do no evil (Shizaru).

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The stories of the four monkeys were popular in Japan in the 17^th century. Their origin is between 2 and 4 BC in China. The Storyologer web-site (www.storyologer.com) has this account of Mahatma Gandhi who carried around a small statue of the three monkeys. “Gandhi had a statue of three monkeys in three different postures. One was shutting his mouth with his hands, the other was shutting his ears similarly and the third one had put hands on his eyes. A visitor to his house became curious and questioned Gandhi about the various postures of the monkeys. Gandhi politely replied, “The one shutting his mouth tells us that we should not speak ill of anybody. The one shutting his ears tells us that we should not hear the ill of anybody. And the one shutting his eyes tells us that we should not see the ills of anybody. If we do so, we will have all goodness and nothing but goodness.”

Travelers will often find local markets with carved depictions or artwork featuring the three monkeys. My wife was able to purchase an angelic model of the same concept. There are three angels; one was covering her eyes, one was covering her ears and the other was covering her mouth. However, the fourth monkey was not shown. The 4^th monkey, when pictured, is usually shown folding his arms (the body language of being closed) or covering his crotch to signify inactivity.

The different interpretations of the four monkeys is fascinating. In Buddhist tradition it meant don’t spend your time preoccupied with evil thoughts. In the West it relates to not facing up to our moral responsibility, for example turning a blind eye. But in my household, the monkeys were presented to us as a model of proper behavior. Our parents wanted us to identify with the images, to supplement our moral code.

See no evil (Mizaru)

We were told to pay attention to people and location(s). The idea was that if we were in the right location, we would minimize seeing trouble develop before our eyes. This was applicable in school and at work. We were instructed against being at the wrong place at the wrong time or the wrong place right. We were also told not to look for bad things in people or in certain situations. There are people who see bad things when they don’t exist, which could explain the manifestations of bias, stereotypes and profiling. We were not taught to be naïve, but to be careful and respectful.

Hear no evil (Kikazaru)

We were told to shield ourselves from bad language and bad intentions. We should stay away from people who spoke ill of others and gossiped. If we were not in the wrong place we could minimize hearing things that we should not hear. We were also instructed not to listen to foul or vulgar language. If we heard people language, especially regarding someone’s evil intentions, we could use the evil information to do good or to help others, that would be permissible.

Speak no evil (Iwazura)

Speak no evil was used to discourage gossiping or speaking ill will about someone. We were told to watch our language and to speak kind words. “If you can’t say anything good about someone, don’t say anything” was a part of this same philosophy. Adults told us that spreading bad news or malicious information could come back to haunt us. We should also, apply this same advice to the workplace.

There is a misconception around the concept about someone. This misconception has led people to adopt a code of silence in the workplace when a person is not pulling their own weight. We would rather silently complain or resign, before talking about an employee who was not working. We would not want to be labeled a snitch or a stool pigeon. In the streets people would say, “snitches get stitches”. To speak evil of someone means telling a lie, varying false witness or defaming their reputation. However, it is our responsibility to find a way to report injustice, illegal behavior and practices that undermine people and the organization. Our intention should be to speak the truth in love without malice or premeditated negative objectives.

One way to break the code of silence is by offering incentives to whistleblowers. These individuals are people who step forward and report unlawful activities in an organization. They are generally paid a 10% bounty if the measure goes to court and fines are levied against the lawbreakers. In neighborhoods where people know the perpetrators of violence, but fail to come forward, there are no such incentives. Residents may be afraid of retribution, as the rationale for their silence. We must also realize that justice requires telling the truth and this should not be regarded as speaking evil of someone.

Do no evil (Shizaru)

The fourth monkey’s actions are truly related to the others. The workplace is a common place for the four monkeys to be used as an operating system. Employee bullying and intimidation, sexual-harassment claims, the presence of racial discrimination, unconscious bias and sexually charged language and actions exists in many organizations. Where improprieties and liberties are taken with people’s rights in the form of disrespectful words and actions, there are laws in place to prevent and punish these actions. Employees, who adopt a see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil mindset are not helping to develop a positive company culture or a respectful workplace

Do no evil is a perfect monkey to enforce the values of character and integrity. He reminds us of proper behavior and etiquette. Our choices have consequences and the more we can emphasize a positive corporate culture and a respectful workplace the more effective our organizations will be become. There is conduct and behavior norms which must be identified, emphasized and enforced vigorously. Character will minimize stress in the workplace and reduce the number of lawsuits and discipline related to improper behavior.

The do no evil mindset would influence our participation in the political process. Our dialogue in conversations around those who are different from us or have different opinions would be positively affected. If we operated each day thinking in terms of do no evil, we would be more empathetic in understanding of each other. We would put ourselves in the shoes of our neighbors and seek to understand their point of, listen to their words and lay the foundation for greater chemistry instead of conflict.

How can we create an environment in our workplaces, families and communities, where people are held accountable for their own unlawful actions and the private citizens who come forward can feel safe and protected? If the fourth monkey was modeled, we would have less of a cause to talk about Mizaru (see no evil) and Kikazuru (hear no evil).

Do no evil and speak no evil should be magnified and connected to many of our guiding principles of behavior. The Golden Rule and its equivalent in many cultures advise us to treat people the way we want to be treated. The Platinum Rule which asks us to treat people the way they want to be treated. The 10 Commandments implores us not to do a series of acts which could be seen as evil, such as murder, stealing, etc. you are instructed to love your neighbor as yourself. If we began from a position of love it is easier to think in terms of speak and do no evil.

We must clearly outline expectations of behavior and the judgment related to them to improve the climate in our organizations, homes and places where people meet. Correct action is essential to achieving healthy results in our relationships.

The imagery and practices espoused by the 4^th monkey holds the key to making this possible. I am hopeful that by emphasizing the fourth monkey, we can improve our behaviors, connections, interactions and relationships with everyone.

The Black Panther Strikes

March 6, 2018 ~ Orlando Ceaser

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The Black Panther movie strikes a chord with movie goers around the world. It is shattering box office records. It is catalytic in its messaging, story-line and visual excitement. People are using it to express profound pride, as it delivers lessons on universal themes, humanity, equality, diversity and inclusion, as well as the pursuit of excellence.

I have seen the movie 3 times, including 3-D and IMAX. Each time I walked away with greater insight. I read the comic book as a youth, so this is nostalgic and a long time coming.

Poetry and the arts allow us the opportunity to express ideas which are magnified with individual interpretation. When translated, transferred and transformed through the prism of our experiences, the results can be nothing short of amazing. Here is my poetic take on the Black Panther experience.

The Black Panther Strikes

The Black Panther strikes;

The images inspire imagination;

Invite, excite and ignite

The embers of genius

Until we remember with fascination

The universal themes and memes

That elicit dreams of excellence

That stream a new ideology;

That emphasizes and empathizes

To aspire desire,

To fire a higher reach,

Through awe and technology.

The Black Panther strikes,

As a cultural phenomenon,

For those among us who’d like an icon;

A super hero with super powers

That look like us with a face like ours;

To build confidence and regal speech,

To show what is possible,

When obstacles are breached;

When an illusion is legal,

But is shifted

And confusion is lifted

And giftedness is the new twist

To enlist us in the new success,

Which is true success.

The Black Panther strikes;

To the heart of the marginalized;

The underserved and disenfranchised;

The heirs, apparently in poverty,

Seeking their cultural identity;

Phenomenally packaged in energy.

They speak seeking a symphony,

In harmony and synergy.

Empathy and intellect can remove

Barriers, as we get involved

And agree to work to solve

The problems that surround us

And have bound us.

We must lift every man,

Woman and child to a place of forgiveness,

Where we can be reconciled;

To share, prepare and repair;

To lift each other from despair.

The Black Panther strikes,

Directly to community;

Inciting citizens in unity;

And stirs the blending of generations

Through tribal traditions

And pageantry.

We show young people

Who they can be

And celebrate their ancestry;

Seeking challenges to prove they’re free.

Science, technology, engineering and math;

Can help us blaze a wider path;

To channel the rage

And engage on a stage

That is larger than we

Intended, but to accept

The mantel and comprehend;

What we should support,

What we should defend.

The Black Panther strikes

To protect the family

And project the family,

As the center of cultural identity;

The truth is, we are all related,

Although our lineage is debated.

We have the capacity;

To help others improve their lot.

We can’t afford to hoard

Resources, when we’ve got

The power through distribution,

To offer solutions.

The Black Panther strikes

A story to which we can all relate;

To entertain and educate

And inspire action

Through universal mores

Of dignity and deliverance,

Eloquence and excellence;

Leadership and tough decisions;

Technology executed with precision.

Ancestors deserving a connection;

Connective tissue is in each of us

Enabling us to adjust,

So that we love and trust.

The Black Panther strikes,

Through imagination and truths,

From elders down through our youth;

For Millennials and women have value,

The men and young boys have talent

And though steeped in the values of tradition,

The motives that drive ambition;

They are inspired through art and technology;

That transcends pathology;

And through mythology

Explore new pathways

Beyond injustice and inequality.

The Black Panther strikes,

So close to home.

There are delegations of youth

At the screenings;

Reporters postulating the meaning,

As millions with African descent,

Extoll the messages and what they represent

And seeing it as a rallying cry;

A cry to honor our first investors

To honor our elders and ancestors;

Imploring us not to forget,

Their sacrifices, wisdom and toil,

For roots and foundation

Enrich the soil.

Conversations with Your Super Hero

February 23, 2018 ~ Orlando Ceaser

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I enjoyed reading for recreation as a young person. There were sophisticated fables and fairy-tales that transported me to distant lands and cultures. I also, enjoyed reading comic books with super heroes who had super powers from birth, mutations or another planet. These books expanded my creativity, vocabulary and imagination. Being different on several levels, I could identify with some of the emotional issues they experienced. There were recurring themes of identity struggles, lacking confidence and feeling like an outsider, a freak, as if they did not belong.

The super heroes realized they were different from their peers and they also wanted very badly to be accepted and to fit in. There were times, I felt isolated and different from my peers. In these moments of exercising my imagination, I felt connected to the characters in the stories; therefore, I felt important.

I noticed an interesting development in the back story of some of the super heroes. There were conversations with a parent, guardian, confidante or mentor. Sometimes the super hero was involved in self-talk and personal reflections. They needed someone to talk to and make them feel accepted and important. They needed assurance and encouragement.

The script of a conversation usually went something like this. “Special One, you are not like other children. You have gifts that are more developed than normal humans or mortals. You are different and unique. You are stronger, faster, smarter or a combination of several attributes, that exceed the performance of others. They don’t understand you. They may not appreciate you, but there is nothing wrong with you. They may tease you, but you must forgive them, for one day it will be your calling to serve them.”

The conversation would continue. “Your super powers enable you to do wonderful things. Your gifts may at times seem like a burden or a curse, but they are a blessing. You must shoulder the responsibility. Knowledge of your powers may cause complications for your family, so you must be secretive about your full range of powers. They may not be able to handle the information. Therefore, you must be careful and not let them see you expressing your total powers.”

And lastly, “Special One, you have been chosen to receive these gifts and you must use them wisely, not for your own benefits, but to help others and make this world a better place. I am proud of you and how you will use your difference to make a difference.”

This conversation is like the talks given by parents, to many children around the world. It is therapy and necessary when children feel different from the rest of a group. The same talk is given to children who relocate and are the new kids on the block. Their distinction and newness are unknown to others, but can be considered as possessing super powers. Children must discover their natural gifts, interests, talents, abilities, proclivity or skills developed from hours of practice. The parents will generally say, “You are different and unique. But you are just as strong, fast, beautiful, smart and talented as other children.”

The fervor and enthusiasm around the monumental success of the Black Panther and Wonder Woman movies, shows the power of story and the arts. There are many articles, commentaries and conversations about the value of the movie in the context of diversity, inclusion and racial and gender pride through displaying positive imagery and story lines. There are the uplifting accounts of pride, promise and great expectations as self-confidence rises. I hope the overwhelming positive imagery will energize a generation to exercise the super heroes within each of us. Wherever these are differences, there is power. There will be a need to conduct conversations and self-talk to build up the human spirit to build confidence in our capacity for connection and greatness.

Whatever differences we possess can be viewed in the same context as a super power. However, just as the super heroes privately worked on improving their abilities, they must also strive for excellence and understanding themselves and others. They must work within their talent, hone their skills, to take it to a higher level. The opportunities will present themselves, when they may be pressed into action to save the day.

When children are wrestling with the distinction they have from others, parents will usually paint it in a positive light, so it can be used as a source of strength. Their difference should be identified as a source of power and pride, even when it seems like a curse.

When youth and adults decide to express their artistic, athletic, intellectual or leadership skills they may encounter negative reactions and reservations. When they stand out from and step up to a challenge, they may face opposition. Why are they upsetting the apple cart? Why do they bother? Why don’t they leave well enough alone? Who do they think they are? Do they think they are special and better than everyone?

Conversation with your Super Hero are important for their growth and development and well-being. When we view movies like The Black Panther and Wonder Woman look for language and imagery to go beyond entertainment, to mine educational opportunities and the inspiration that is there to generate positive action to change the world. We are the parents, guardians, confidantes and mentors required to encourage and comfort the next generation. We must help them identify who they are and who they are expected to become, to reach their destiny and fulfill their promise.

The Core of More™ – Be Awesome from the Inside Out

February 19, 2018 ~ Orlando Ceaser

There are crucial components to your development that must be examined to accelerate your progress. There is a core set of skills, values or principles which can be debated, but factually, these key ingredients build on your present state.

Let’s place four elements in this Core of More™. These elements confirm there is more in your core than you can imagine, yet you periodically ignore one or more components. They are Let it glow, Let it grow, Let it flow and Let it go. These ingredients will enable you to gain rather than regress and achieve surplus, that is not necessarily excess.

Let it Glow

Your light, however you define it, must be allowed to shine. Your talent, skills, abilities, capacity and resources must be a beacon of hope, a living positive example. Your light must be an indicator of your presence, purpose and performance. As we sang in Sunday School, “This little light of mine, I’m going to let it shine. Let it shine, let it shine, let it shine.” When it shines, it has a glow, a luminescence that grabs people attention, pinpoints your location and potentially influences your behavior.

Let it Grow

Skill level and impact will expand and enlarge your contributions. Influence grows as your abilities are refined and increased. You will devote the time, effort, energy and insight received from teachers, mentors and coaches to improve knowledge and the quality of your work.

You will become a continuous learner and communicator, passionate about getting better in the priority areas of your life. Your light will get larger and brighter and more will take notice of you and more will be expected of you, as more are influenced by your presence. Your abundance will become a windfall to others, as you realize you are slated to get better, so others can benefit from your brilliance.

Let it Flow

As it glows and grows, it will flow in the execution of your skill set and in helping other people. Work will become easier and more natural. Executing your tasks will appear effortless, mainly because you are in your sweet spot and you are letting it flow. It is captured in an acronym SMILE (So Make It Look Easy). An athlete will comment that they let the game come to them or the game slows down for them as they improve their craft.

When you let it flow, you remove the barriers to your performance. Your actions are as a well-trained athlete, gliding through the race; a musician who makes playing the instrument look easy; a world class professional speaker in their comfort zone, delivering a powerful message. You are caught up in the flow.

Professor Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi , has a concept of flow which is defined as follows, “In positive psychology, as the zone, is the mental state of operation in which a person performing an activity is fully immersed in a feeling of energized focus, full involvement, and enjoyment in the process of the activity”¹. It is a state where skills are consistent with the challenges presented to you. In the state of flow, you lose track of time and you are consumed in passion”². Simon Sinek says, “Working hard for something we don’t care about is called stress; working hard for something we love is called passion.”³ When you Let it flow, your passion shows, as you let it flow.

Let it Go

Along your journey, there are nouns you must displace. There are people, places or things that are excessive weight that must be discarded. As a hot air balloonist will tell you, if they want to increase their altitude, sand bags must be cast over board or they will hamper your ascension.

There are personal situations that try to hold you back and hold you down. In earlier articles I refer to them as the Hindre™ a person or spirit of negativity that attempts to hinder or restrict your progress. They must be released if you are to soar to the rightful heights of your achievement. You may know these impediments, or you must be open to people giving you a second opinion on people who are plotting against you.

You must let go of destructive habits, attitudes, the wrong crowd, the wrong mindset or other roadblocks that are impeding your progress.

Let it glow, Let it grow, Let it flow and Let it go, are part of the Core of More™. Apply these principles to help you achieve success in the professional and personal realms of your life.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_(psychology)
Csikszentmihalyi, Mihaly (1998). Finding Flow: The Psychology of Engagement With Everyday Life
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